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Neurolove.me: How To Make Your Move

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You like someone, you’re pretty sure they like you too, and you’re ready to take the risk and make your move. But how? Here are some tips on what to do:

 

·        Plan alone time. It’s nearly impossible to make a move when you’re surrounded by other people, so make plans for hanging out alone. Don’t just wait around hoping to get them alone, but make the effort to make plans for just the two of you. This will ensure that it happens and will also send a message to him/her that you really like them and are making and effort to make something happen.

·        Set the stage. Choosing a romantic setting always helps when you’re trying to make a move. Starry nights, during the perfect song at a concert, a sunset walk, etc. are all great scenarios for romance.

·        Thoughtful gestures. Show them that you’re making an effort and that you are really into them by making some thoughtful gestures leading up to making your move. Take them to their favorite restaurant or have their favorite song playing. Something small can be effective when done right.

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Neurolove.me: Finding Your Motivation

mindmotivation:

Finding our motivation is a struggle we all face. The only reason we ever accomplish anything is due to motivation. So how do we develop one?

All our motivation is derived from two opposite ends, from what we’ve learned to consider as pain and pleasure, in…

Neurolove.me: Ways to stay motivated

mindmotivation:

After we’ve found our motivation, how do we stay on top of it? Maybe you’re trying to get fit, lose weight, or start your own business. Maybe you’re trying to do several things at once.

Getting motivated and inspired is the first step of a goal. We start going to the gym…

PEOPLE WHO INSPIRE ME #2

Richard Feynman

In this age of specialization men who thoroughly know one field are often incompetent to discuss another. The great problems of the relations between one and another aspect of human activity have for this reason been discussed less and less in public. When we look at the past great debates on these subjects we feel jealous of those times, for we should have liked the excitement of such argument. The old problems, such as the relation of science and religion, are still with us, and I believe present as difficult dilemmas as ever, but they are not often publicly discussed because of the limitations of specialization.

It doesn’t seem to me that this fantastically marvelous universe, this tremendous range of time and space and different kinds of animals, and all the different planets, and all these atoms with all their motions, and so on, all this complicated thing can merely be a stage so that God can watch human beings struggle for good and evil — which is the view that religion has. The stage is too big for the drama.

You say you are a nameless man. You are not to your wife and to your child. You will not long remain so to your immediate colleagues if you can answer their simple questions when they come into your office. You are not nameless to me. Do not remain nameless to yourself — it is too sad a way to be. Know your place in the world and evaluate yourself fairly, not in terms of the naïve ideals of your own youth, nor in terms of what you erroneously imagine your teacher’s ideals are.

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